Archives for November 2009

Is He Right for You?

Forget the questions to ask your baker. Here’s the most important question to ask yourself before you walk down the aisle.

You know those weddings where everyone’s taking side bets on how long the marriage will last? That could have been me. I was once engaged to a very nice guy who couldn’t have been more wrong for me. I knew he’d be a great husband and a great father, but as hard as I tried, I just wasn’t in love with him. When he asked me to marry him, I said yes because I didn’t know how to say no.

I almost went through with it, but I somehow found the strength to break it off. I was afraid my family and friends would be disappointed or angry. Instead, they were happy for me. It turned out I wasn’t the only one who knew it wasn’t right: everyone else knew it too.

“When it’s right, you’ll just know,” my good friend Ann told me.

I didn’t believe her. I’d dated plenty, but nothing ever felt “right.”

“I’ll never ‘just know’,” I thought. “There will always be that nagging voice inside telling me something is wrong.”

When I met my husband, I knew Ann was right. I was 35. He was 25 and didn’t meet any of my criteria, but it all just clicked. I walked down the aisle madly in love and without a hint of that tiny voice I’d expected. I couldn’t be happier today.

Many of our friends tell us that ours was the best wedding they’ve ever been to. Sure, the open bar helped. But the fact that it was so right–and everyone knew it–was what really made the difference.

Before you take the plunge, ask yourself if it’s right. If not, you’re not fooling anyone. Your friends and family all know it too. Find the strength to call it off. Good friends and family will support you. And remember, when it’s right, you’ll just know.

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Stained Glass Cookies

This is one of those family traditions that you continue just because, well, it’s a family tradition. My sister and I loved making these cookies as kids, even though they look a lot better than they taste. I can still see my mom’s recipe, stained and torn over the years, that she’d sent away for with a stamped, self-addressed envelope. This was before the invention of the silicone baking mat, and the cookies stuck so mercilessly that each bite contained a bit of waxed paper that inevitably became a chewy wad in your mouth. Now, with the internet and Silpats, I reprint the recipe every year and the cookies don’t stick, but they still look way better than they taste, and so, the tradition lives on. I’ve adapted the recipe here.

Stained Glass Cookies  

Ingredients
1/2 cup (1 stick) butter
1/2 cup sugar
1/4 cup brown sugar
1 tablespoon corn syrup
1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 egg
2 cups flour
1/4 teaspoon salt
3/4 teaspoon baking powder
30-40 hard candies (such as Life Savers), preferably in several flavors/colors

Method
1. Pre-heat oven to 350°F. Line two baking sheets with a Silpat.
2. In a large bowl, using an electric mixer, cream together butter and sugars until fluffy, about 2 minutes. Add corn syrup and vanilla extract, mixing until incorporated. Add egg and mix until light and smooth, about 1 minute on medium speed.
3. Sift together flour, salt, and baking powder. Fold dry ingredients into wet mixture. Use electric mixer to blend just until flour is incorporated. Divide dough in half and flatten into two disks. Wrap disks in plastic wrap and refrigerate at least an hour and up to 2 days.
4. Remove any wrappers on candies and separate them by color.

5. Put candies into plastic bags. Use a mallet to crush candies.

6. Roll to 1/4-inch thickness on floured board. Use cookie cutters to cut dough into desired shapes.

7. Transfer cookies to prepared baking sheets, about 1 inch apart. Using a smaller cookie cutter or a knife, cut shapes into centers of cookies, reserving these center bits to add into extra dough.
8. Sprinkle the crushed candy into the hollowed-out centers of the cookies, filling to the edges. Try to keep the candy within the centers. Any candy specks that fall on the cookie will color the cookie.

9. If cookies will be hung as ornaments or decorations, poke a small hole in the top of each cookie before baking.
10. Bake 9 to 10 minutes. The candy should be melted and bubbling and the cookies just barely beginning to brown. Remove baking sheets from oven and place on wire racks to cool. Allow cookies to cool on pans at least 10 minutes; otherwise, the candy centers may separate from the dough. When cookies are completely cooled, remove and store in an airtight container. String with ribbon if you want to hang as an ornament.



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Are You Cut Out for Cake?

Ready to quit your job to pursue a career in cake? Take our quiz to find out if you have what it takes to be a full-time cake designer. For each question, answer true or false:


1/ I enjoy being covered in cake batter.

2/ I am willing to pull an all-nighter to finish a cake.

3/ Stress only makes me stronger.

4/ Weekends? Never heard of ‘em.

5/ I am an artist, damn it!

6/ I fully subscribe to Murphy’s Law.

7/ Red (or blue, or green, or yellow) food coloring-stained hands are cool.

8/ I see no point in having a party if there is no cake.

9/ I relish the thought of fully surrendering artistic control.

10/ My Christmas Wish List: spatulas

If you answered true to all ten questions, you’re making the right move. Any less than that, you might want to rethink your decision. Just like any job, cake design can be stressful and feel more like work than play. It is a great medium, though, and a wonderful creative outlet. And when it comes down to it, I love what I do, any way you (ahem) slice it.

 

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Fontest Winner!

We randomly selected Beth S. from Colonial Heights, VA, as the winner of our fondant contest. Beth wrote: “I love Satin Ice fondant. It is consistently easy to work with, has great flavor, and doesn’t dry out easily.” Beth won five pounds of fondant for her submission.

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