Eight Things I Learned the Hard Way

I’ve been decorating cakes for 15 years now and I’ve learned a lot along the way. Here are a few things I wish someone had told me so I didn’t have to find out on my own.

1/ No cake is perfect. I’ve spent countless hours over the years admiring other peoples’ work and wishing mine could be equally perfect. In fact, I once emailed Ron Ben-Isreal, a major celebrity in my world, to tell him how much I admired his flawless work. I was shocked that he wrote back, but even more shocked to learn that he saw many a flaw in his own cakes. The truth is, you can probably spot a flaw if you look closely enough at any cake, and I’d bet the designer could spot many more. Instead of focusing on the flaws, I now try to be objective about my work and view it the way other people would.

2/ Fondant CAN be refrigerated. This was a big one for me. I took my first fondant class at a small cake decorating store in Jackson Heights, NY, in 1999. We were taught that fondant should never ever be refrigerated. One summer several years ago, I drove a cake all the way up to Malibu in the heat. When I got there, the buttercream filling had softened and tried to escape, leaving unsightly horizontal ridges, and allowing the cake to compress, all of which caused the fondant to buckle. It was my first and only complaint from a bride, but I was devastated. I called my friend Melody from Sweet and Saucy Shop to lament my misfortune. It was she who told me that fondant can in fact be refrigerated. I now always refrigerate my cakes, transport them in a commercial cooloer, and have not had a problem since. (Note: Set your fridge to the warmest possible temperature so that the difference between the air temp and fridge temp is reduced. Depending on the weather, your cake might form condensation when you take it out. Be sure to allow time for the condensation to evaporate, and don’t touch it during this time as the fondant is very sticky.)

3/ It’s important to invest in your craft and in yourself. Quality tools make a huge difference and save you a lot of time. Although it may seem like a big investment at the outset, if you calculate all the time you waste with cheap materials, you’ll find that the investment actually saves you money in the long run. I once bought inexpensive fondant that dried out very quickly, spent countless hours trying to work with it, and in the end had to purchase the other, more expensive fondant. I spent more money and wasted more time than I would have had I bought the better fondant right off the bat.

4/ No one knows what the cake looks like in your imagination. In your mind, the cake for your daughter’s third birthday is perfect: the pink a lovely rosey shade, the vertical stripes exactly 1″ wide. When all is said and done, the pink is more like a fuchsia, and you didn’t have time for the stripes. All your guests can see is a beautiful cake with pretty pink roses. They can’t read your mind, so to them, it looks exactly as it was supposed to.

5/ Make every cake like someone is going to see it. Regrettably, I don’t have time to read many blogs, but one day I found myself reading a post on wedding photographer Jasmine Star’s blog. I don’t know if this is what she meant, but this is what I got from it, and it stuck with me: Don’t ever shortchange yourself or your clients. Give them what you would want and expect for yourself. Strive to do your best. Everything you put out there represents you. Make it count.

6/ Use a ribbon cutter for vertical stripes. An inexpensive and indispensable tool that I somehow didn’t know about until two or three years ago. Although there are others on the market, I have found that the FMM Multi-Ribbon Cutter is the best.

7/ You’ll find your style. When I taught high school, by the end of the semester I could identify the handwriting of each of my 150 students. Cake design is like that: everyone has his or her own individual “handwriting”. Early in my career, I tried to emulate every cake artist whose work I admired, but like trying to forge your mom’s signature, it never quite worked. Eventually, I found myself using techniques over and over and applying them in new ways that I had developed, and using colors that I’ve liked since I was a kid. I stopped thinking so much about defining myself as an artist and just sort of let my own style emerge.

8/ Keep learning. All professionals, from doctors to teachers, are expected to stay current with new developments and practices in their field. Jacqueline Butler, of Petalsweet in San Diego, told me that she tries to take a class every year with someone whose work she likes. Classes are a wonderful way to stay current with new trends, learn new techniques, grow as a professional, and meet fellow cake designers. Thanks to Jacqueline, now I too try to take at least one class every year.

Because I am still learning and evolving as an artist, this list is in no way comprehensive. I hope to revisit this list and add to it in the future, but for now, I hope you can benefit from my experiences and mistakes. I have truly grown from them.

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8 Responses to Eight Things I Learned the Hard Way

  1. sweeteatscakes says:

    I totally agree with number 4. it is hard for me when a cake does not come out looking like how I pictured it in my head. However I have learned to let that go because only I know that. I am still trying to find exactly what my style is but I admire so many different styles that is hard for me to choose just one. Great advice!

  2. Erica O'Brien Cake Design says:

    Thanks for your comment sweeteatscakes. The good news is: You don't choose your style. It chooses you. Just let it happen! And we are all influenced by each other. No one works in a vaccuum. You're doing great!

  3. Jennywenny says:

    What wonderful advice! I love all of these points! I hope to take you up on the idea of taking classes with you some time in the future. I also hope I manage to develop my own style as that is something that I'm struggling with, but I love the idea that I should just let it evolve. I'll try and put that worry on the back burner for now!

  4. Love 'Em Sweet says:

    As someone who is just starting out and trying to identify my style, it's definitely encouraging to hear that everyone struggles at some point and no cake is completely perfect. Thank you for this post and the advice!!!

  5. BellaLovesPink says:

    Such a great post Erica! Thanks for reminding me of the things I so often forget!

  6. Special T Cakes says:

    This posting was so timely for me! Thank you! Btw, I am a huge fan of your work. Thanks for the inspiration.

    -Fellow Decorator, Toni

  7. Carla Regan says:

    Reading this has come at the right time for me and my cake making journey, I am starting to feel like I’m not very good at what I do and have even thought about giving up :( . I love what I do and when a customer loves my cakes and gives me positive feed back it’s wonderful. Then on the other hand when you work really hard on an order and the feed back you get is that they (cupcakes) looked really good but didn’t taste very nice is not a nice feeling, especially when it’s a recipe you use all the time and is normally loved by everyone. I’m really not sure how to get myself out of this rut :(

  8. so much great advice! im just getting to the point now (after about 3 years of cakes) that i notice myself using the same techniques over and over again. as much as i love experimenting with new things, there are a few techniques that i’m kind of becoming “known for”. it’s so exciting for your own little niche :)

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